My heart warms when I see the buddhist bumper sticker that says, “My religion is kindness”. But how frequently do we really encounter it in day to day life?
Well, I have today and I am really touched by it. My daughter is coming home today on the Greyhound, through a lake effect snow warning, so my mind was filled with caution and fear as I got on the internet to check the weather reports.
I found a message in my inbox that I almost didn’t read. You see, I have a YouTube account, (as some of you know), and having one means that I get a lot of spam messages via YouTube. But this one seemed to stick out as something I should read.
It was a really nice email from a real person, (who I’ll call J). J said that she found my videos on accident. J said they were good. J said that she really liked them! J gave me a short summary of her evaluation and it made me realize that she got it. She received what I was sending out. Nobody has done that before. I didn’t need to explain it. I didn’t need an ‘artist statement’ to make me feel like an artist, to try to make people understand what I was doing. J just GOT IT.
And then, J let me know. She took a moment to actually write me a message and tell me.
What would happen if we all did that today? We would all touch someone and change their day. We would be making a deposit in their bank of self esteem. We would cause them to be gentle with someone today. We would, with our act of kindness, affect the lives positively of several people.
Let’s do it! I’m SERIOUS! Let’s do it. If you are reading this, go to YouTube, Etsy or Artfire. Look through stuff. When you see something you like, send the person a message and let them know. You GET IT.
You see, this is what J did for me today: filled with self doubt, deeply routed in shame, I “disasterized” my daughter’s trip and was on a path of several worrisome hours. But then I read J’s message. I felt validated. I felt good that I made someone happy for a few moments. That was an elixir on the self doubt. That stomped down the disaster thoughts. That released my mind.
Connections like that keep us human.
J, if you actually came to the website and read my blog like I asked you to, please let me know via our conversation on YouTube. I’d like to send you a gift from my Etsy shop. It’s something new I am creating for Valentine’s Day, called Mended Hearts.
Peace.